Inter-Course: The money shot is not hot
A landscaper friend of mine once told me a story. She was working on a garden bed underneath a client’s kitchen window and the only people home were the couple’s college-aged son and one of his friends. The kitchen window was open, so my friend could hear every word of the conversation they were having, which inevitably turned to the topic of females.
One guy confessed to the other that he wasn’t sure if he was pleasing his girlfriend sexually, and he was curious to know how a guy could tell if the girl he was having sex with was having a good time. The other guy replied that “the best thing to do is to just fuck her really hard for as long as you can and then come all over her face. Girls really like that.”
It made my friend laugh so hard she just about peed her pants.
Clearly, that guy had been taking too many cues from bad porn, because girls really don’t like that. First of all, the general consensus—and I’ve talked to a lot of women about this—is that women don’t want to actually be penetrated for hours on end. A good 20 minutes is all most of us can take. After that we start to chafe.
Secondly, you should never—never—come all over someone’s face without asking first. Another friend of mine once head-butted a guy in the walnuts after he spurted on her face without asking, and no one wants that.
I don’t know where this idea came from that being good in bed means banging someone for as long as you can.
What people should be boasting about is for how long they were able to spin out the foreplay.
When people talk about having sex all night, they’re not just talking penetration. They’re talking about mixing it up—foreplay, and then some penetration, and then some more foreplay, and then some more penetration.
If you’re a guy who takes time to reach climax, making sure you stop every once in a while to stimulate your girl’s clit is also really important. That way, her vagina will stay wet and not only will she not chafe, but she won’t get bored of you doing your thing, pounding away on top of her.
But, really, if you want to know if your partner is having a good time, regardless of if they’re a guy or girl, why not just ask them?
Some people may be a bit shy about divulging what blows their hair back at first, but if you’re persistent, they’ll eventually come around, and then they’ll really cum around, and both of you will be happy that they did.
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This sounds like a conversation once had on a Raddisson hotel room balcony. I like this piece.